The Best Places to Meet Women
How to Meet Women Outside of a Club
So you want to meet women and get into a relationship with a woman. We’ll you are not alone here. Lots of guys want a girlfriend. But one of the biggest problems I’ve noticed in my quest to become a PUA is that most guys sit around expecting women to come to them. Sorry to break it to you folks, women will almost never approach you. Sitting around will get you nowhere. If you even want to have the remotest chances of dating a woman, you will need to get out there into the public space and meet women.
Now, a lot of people meet girls through friends, but if you’re a shy guy – and I assume if you are reading this you probably are – you may not have this network of friends-with-attractive-female-friends to help you meet women. Of course, there are the usual place to meet women (clubs, bars, discos), but it can be a difficult challenge indeed to find suitable girlfriend material here. For one night stands, clubs can be a fantastic place – if you have game. But, I’m operating under the assumption here that you don’t have game. That’s ok. The point of this website is to furnish you with tools to confidently approach, talk to, and even pickup women. In other words, the point of the website is to help you get game.
The usual place people think of for meeting women is the club. However, these are not the best place for guys with no game to start at. If you go to a club, there is a big chance you will just sit around and stare at all the lovely women walking around. No good. The point is to help get you out into the world into situations where you have the opportunity to casually meet and chat up women. The point of meeting women at this stage is not necessarily trying to pick them up (though if you feel you have the confidence, do so by all means), but to practice your social skills. The more you talk to women, the easier it will be to meet women and converse with them. The ultimate goal is to be very comfortable conversing with women – you want to be able to go up to strange women and just start conversations. While they may seem hard for you now, if you make a habit of meeting and talking to women, you will be quite comfortable talking to women anywhere, be it the library, coffee shop, disco club, etc. Indeed, as your talking ability with women increases, you may find yourself becoming friends with many women – something that’s a sure sign that your personal progress is rapidly approaching the point where you can get a girlfriend. Before getting a girlfriend, you will first have to be friends with her. So, let’s take a look at some casual places that are conductive to meeting women.
Get a Girlfriend Tip 1: Meet Women at College Parties
There are a variety of functions you can participate in to meet women. If you are in college or university, there are always house parties you can seek out. These are prime places to meet women, specifically, drunk and often very horny women! The fact that they are drunk means that if you are terrible at talking to women, you can now, for the first time in your life, probably hold a decent (one-sided) conversation with some of the stumbling women wandering around. The big plus here is that it doesn’t matter what you say to them, they won’t tell you to f*uck off. This setting is good practice for you shy guys; you can talk to women without fear of saying anything stupid — thefy won’t remember it if you do.
Get a Girlfriend Tip 2: Meet Women in Yoga Class
Ah, my personal favorite. There is something about being one of the only guys in class of beautiful, scantily clad women doing sexy stretching poses. Besides giving you a lot of visual candy, there will be plenty of opportunity to talk to the ladies. What to talk about? Ask for help with the various yoga positions, ask if the yoga really helps lose weight, ask something — anything. The point is to start chatting up the ladies for practice!
Get a Girlfriend Tip 3: Meet Women in Social Clubs
Join a karate club, or other such sport club. If you’re in college or university, you’ve hit the jackpot. There are a million clubs offered and supported by the school each semester. There are usually special club days where the clubs set up booths and you can wander around and decide which ones you may have an interest in. Note, since the purpose of joining the club is actually to try and meet and talk to women, try to avoid joining harsh sports like MMA, hockey, rugby, and other such contact sports. Women tend to avoid these types of clubs like a plague (I know, I’ve participated in MMA and martial art clubs for years and women were more scarce than water in a dessert). While it may turn men on to watch other men beat the sh*t out of each other in a cage, or bash each other’s heads in with hockey sticks, women don’t usually find this appealing. No, instead look for clubs that might appeal to the female mind. My personal experience has shown me dance clubs (waltz, salsa, hip hop), snowboard clubs, and literature clubs tend to have lots of cute women – and usually women that are in shape.
Get a Girlfriend Tip 4: Meet Women in the Gym (not beginner friendly)
The gym is a great place to meet women. As a bonus, the women you meet are usually incredibly fit. However, unless you have some serious PUA (pick up artist skills), it’s a pretty big step to chat up women while they lift weights. Most women will give you the f*ck of* look if you start to chat them up while they’re on the treadmill. However, if you have some serious game, the gym is a great place to meet women.
Get a Girlfriend Tip 5: Meet Women in Church
Yes, church. Church is a great place to meet women, if you play your cards right. You may even get a girlfriend too. You may feel religious women are a turn off, but they can be incredibly sexy. Think of it this way, you can play the priest, and she the nun 
Now, for those atheists among you, this may not be a feasible option to consider. However, if you are a Christian (or don’t mind pretending that you are to meet women), scout out the local church. So what’s so good about churches? People at churches do churchy things right? We’ll, yes they do. However, churches tend to have something they call Youth Groups / Young Adults Groups. These are essentially get-togethers of various teenagers and college students for the (hidden) purpose of dating. Oh, ostensibly you are there to learn about God and such, but deep down, both sexes are really scoping out the other for possible dates. In these groups, there are plenty of opportunities to talk to women in a personal, if religious, setting.
These are some of places where it’s very easy to meet and talk to women. Since the setting of each place is purely related to some topic or activity, it’s easy to just casually start off conversations about the shared activities. In addition, in many of the places listed, you will meet the women in the group/place by default (e.g. dance class). You will find yourself quickly invited to personal parties and other events by merely being part of the group. So get out there and find ways to meet women in a casual (i.e. non pickup environment) environment; you may find yourself on a quick track to getting female friends and possibly a girlfriend. but the point is to actually be around women in a social setting. The reason why many guys have trouble meeting girls is because they are often uncomfortable in the presence of women. They are “intimidated” by women. Guys trust me as someone who has been around the block many times: women can tell right away if you are intimidated by them. It’s an incredible turnoff for women. Women want a man who is in control. You need to be in control, or at least give them the illusion that you are in control. The best way to start getting this confidence is to be confident talking to women in the first place. How do you get this confidence? By spending lots of time with women and by talking to them. So take a look at these places to meet women outside of a disco club and you will be well on your way to getting a girlfriend.
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